Its been the year of the bastard

Now a days extramarital affairs are becoming public with celebrities like A-Rod,Tiger Woods and Jesse James but don't forget David Lettermen admitting it on live tv to millions and millions of viewers that he has not been true to his wife.It no shocker that political shaker John Edwards has a love child behind his cancer striken wife's back or that the Dad from Jon & Kate plus 8 decided to nail the babysitter along with a few other poor women that had to put up with his mid-life Ed Hardy wearing social problems.
Proving more to the female population that all men cannot be trusted until they fuck up. In the old modern days affairs were kept behind closed doors or placed in closets along with other skeletons.
Now that its made its movement in society we may never know who to trust when it comes to love and relationships.
In statistics men lead the way in affairs but a small group of women have been known to become the female bastard hence the bastardess.
Popstar Britney Spears had a number one song written about her by former flame Justin Timberlake. It goes to show that it takes two to tango of the ballroom of cheating. When home on a weekday a person can enjoy good quality televistion like Jerry Springer,Maury and my all time favorite Cheaters.
Monogamy seems to only come from cheating from people's aspects in these shows.
Certain relationships have been made through cheating due to forbidden love.But to stay commited once you have already cheated proves that guilt doesn't hit hard.
Love has its highs and lows along with its quirks and trips.
To only be fair to the other side we are only human we make mistakes like everyone else. We get over them and move on then only in time we forgive and forget to find someone new that doesn't end up as a bastard.

Check box: married or single?

Have you ever realized how they have a checkbox for almost everything?
Facebook has optional ones for people in open relationships and compilcated one.When doing government or job paperwork the two main boxes that throw me off the most is the topic of being married or single? What no in a relationship or casual sex box? But of course I have to circle the single box. Which brings me to confess that I am now dating someone.So I'm still single just taken as they put it in paperwork.
So as of now I will be still bringing you your full dose of single in San Antonio.

There will be more articles coming soon along with polls and updates.
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Environmental sex toy? Sounds like a punk band.

This or THAT?

In our time we have learned to take a “new age” outlook on the environment. Not just cutting back on hairspray and making sure the car doesn’t smoke but everywhere you turn now a days every kind of store has been putting out their own version of reusable bags. From the H-E-B down the street to the Toys-R-Us in the Forum parkway. Going “green” has been turned into a whole new culture.
Everything from washing machines to light bulbs have taken the high road to a better future and now the wonderful world of adult sex toys has gone that route.
I give you the Earth Angel (http://www.theearthangel.ie/index.html) made of hundred percent recyclable material in product and packaging. No batteries, no problem batteries contain harmful metals like mercury, cadmium and lead another killing factor in the environment.
The same technology that the Earth Angel uses has been around since the old times. Where the handheld radios used for camping and emergency kits are wind up with a hand crank that stores a certain amount of energy for an hour or two at a time.
With just one easy payment of 69.99 in euros(not sure how much in American) it can be your. Now lets compare this product to a much popular American made adult novelty toy.
The Rabbit or the many generic versions of it is today’s best online selling sex toy.
Its so popular it has its own wikipedia page and has been mentioned on shows like Sex and the city and on HBO’s real sex.
So let us compare shall we? The Rabbit vibrates and rotates with a clitoris stimulator attached to the shaft which looks like a pair of rabbit ears(hence The Rabbit). It comes in many different colors, along with a A/C power adapter to plug in(solves the battery issue kind of). As well as a built in remote that gives you a choice between two shaft rotation speeds and two patterns of clitoral stimulation, or allow both functions at the same time.
Some even light up but why would anybody need a light unless smoking after sex?
The Earth Angel only vibrates and doesn’t come with any bells or whistles with the look of a piece of white PVC piping.
With this battle of sex toys the Earth Angel has one upper hand. The Rabbit is made in many different kind of materials such as silicone (semi-organic polymer), rubber (elastic hydrocarbon polymer) or latex (natural rubber) along with vinyl, plastic, and metal. In a sense not good for the environment.
But when I ask people about this topic the many replies I get are “To hell with the environment I just want to get off.” I guess it’s the dual stimulators? In the long run The Rabbit beats the Earth Angel in everything but being earth friendly. Well at least the hippies will be very happy.
I now know what I’m getting next time I go out “adult” shopping at the Megaplex.

Change is good.

The first day of September is wonderful. The summer nights cool down allowing people to open their windows and breath the beautiful air. In my case sitting outside my house smoking a
cigarette with my bare feet perched on the window seal.
It also marks the end for triple digit summer heat waves. Living in an area close to the border the change of weather is a nice outlook on ones single life. But the change I'm talking about is not about the weather ,sex,love or relationships but what happens after.
Since the feminist movement in the 1960s women have been changing their looks after liberating themselves from men. Not just burning their bras but chopping off their long locks as well. Weather it be freedom in any sense women do more then just hack off their hair to get back at their mate. Usually after a hard hitting sad ending to a relationship a form of depression sets in where you can't sleep or eat resulting in losing a certain amount of weight.
Some have resulted to changing style of clothing or hair color to lift a burden off their shoulders.
In the long run a new image can be a great thing but be careful to not forget the inner you and the image you love as yourself.

The Scarlet "W".

After a year my divorce was final I was now a free woman to walk the earth. I had recently attended my friends wedding and to my horror I found out I was the only single person there. Everywhere I turned I saw sneered faces of the female form of couples that were paired together at the ceremony. I didn't realize until later that I had walked into a shooting range of judgment. Single women all around the world have been getting a bad wrap since the dawn of time for just being alone. We wonder why this came to be? If you are not in a couple some how people believe you want to be. Which sparks a psycho paranoid feeling in certain women when in a relationship believe that everybody wants their mate.
Sometimes its a trust issue between two people from the result of being cheated on in a pervious or current relationship. When single words like "slut","shank" or "whore" are used to belittle and put us at bay from being noticed by anybody if given a chance. Being a threat can be taken in a whole new direction but can also be an ego boost for some. In order to live in this world with other non-single people the only way to survive is to grid your teeth and bear it. Never let them get you down and live your life the way you want to live it.

Being Reckless.

When ready to check out at my local H-E-B store I walk by the magazine rack and browse over the countless celebrity scandals. Almost all of them have Lindsey Lohan on the cover being drunk and reckless. You wonder "Does she do this everyday?" and "Why isn't she thinking". But then you have to realize that you have been reckless at one point in your life one way or another. Usually these events happen during nights of drinking and dancing with friends. You wake up the next morning to somebody you don't recall talking to the night before wondering what the hell were you thinking? Some people call this a one night stand others say you had "beer goggles".Welcome to being reckless 101 where Lindsey Lohan is your teacher and after that night you have earned your degree in being a train wreck. Some repeat until they have decided to go into rehab others "get real" and lay low until their next "moment". This does not only affect regular single people but also people that are newly broken-up or divorced. When under the influence you don't remember what went wrong only the strong loving feelings that were there before. Only to wake up from a dream (the next day)and feel bad or hurt from it not being "fixed" from your drunken night with your ex.
There is only one way to heal yourself and not let it eat you up. Move on and stop partying with your ex unless a good friend can prevent you from making a blunder the next morning. You're only human and we make mistakes only to learn and be better people.

The great oral debate:to blow or not to blow that is the question?

One fine autumn day a group of friends and I were heading towards Austin for a day of shopping and fun. When you are stuck in a car for an hour with five women the conversation always leads to sex and relationships. At that moment I had a made an interesting discovery one of my friends that was married had never given her husband oral sex. Could a relationship work without having to resort to cunnilligus? My motto is I give head to get head in order to be equal when it comes to sex but when my friend explained to me that her husband was fine with the fact that she didn't do it. He never pushed the idea or whined about it. In our sexual culture we have given it many nicknames from a "bj" to a "Lewinsky" but don't mention that one on tv without getting a lawsuit. Authors have put out books like "The Going Down Guide" by British sexperts Emily Dubberley and Al Needham which gives tips as well as pg-13 photos to guide you. Besides books you can rent a DVD or take a class on how to please your mate "down there". In theory if you do it or not there is always information to help either way.